Why We Celebrate Friendsgiving—Including a Connection to 'Friends'
Friendsgiving is a relatively new tradition that I’ve wholeheartedly embraced. If you’re not familiar with the celebration, it’s basically a Thanksgiving dinner that’s shared between friends rather than family. Of course, I’m all for eating two Thanksgiving meals—especially when there’s pumpkin pie involved—but there’s just something about a day dedicated to celebrating friendship that gives me the warm fuzzies.
But where did the tradition come from? It’s become increasingly popular over the last few years, but its origins can be traced back to the mid-2000s. I’ve heard many theories that the term ‘Friendsgiving’ can actually be attributed to the TV show Friends—but how credible is that really? As a certified Friends expert—my credentials include owning the complete DVD set ($70, Target) and quoting Chandler Bing whenever possible—, I decided to find out.
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It’s a well-known fact that Friends aired one Thanksgiving episode each season. And since there are 10 seasons, it’s become a tradition in many households to watch all 10 episodes back-to-back around Thanksgiving time (my favorite is the one with The Gellar Cup). Each season, for some reason or another, all six of the friends find themselves celebrating together in the city rather than going home to their families. And so each Thanksgiving, the episode concludes with the friends declaring their thankfulness and appreciation for each other—much like the modern-day Friendsgiving celebration.
So while the term ‘friendsgiving’ was never said on the show, many credit the six friends with the invention of friendsgiving. Not to mention the show’s name is literally part of the word. So, is this just a crazy fan theory? As it turns out, no, it’s not—there is actually some significant data that points to the term ‘friendsgiving’ originating from the show.
Friends was on the air from 1994 to 2004, and the first recorded Google searches for ‘friendsgiving’ hit in the fall of 2004. Could this be more of a coincidence? And then, when friends first came to Netflix in 2015—making the show easily accessible to the masses for the first time since it had stopped airing—Google searches for ‘friendsgiving’ peaked again, and have steadily increased every year since.
And in case you needed further convincing that you should add Friendsgiving (and a Friends marathon) to your annual holiday plans, Merriam-Webster officially added the term to the dictionary last year. So as you gather your gang for a socially-distanced Friendsgiving celebration this year, say a quick thanks to Monica, Rachel, Phoebe, Chandler, Ross, and Joey for this heartfelt tradition.