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19 Ways to Celebrate a Birthday Without Having a Party

By Amy Palanjian and Sarah Martens Updated March 08, 2021
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Sure, birthday parties are always fun, but there are creative ways to celebrate birthdays of all ages without a party. We love to find small ways to celebrate friends and family members to make their whole birthday feel super special. With ideas including making custom cards, starting new birthday traditions, enjoying special birthday treats and more, you can be sure they will feel loved from morning to night. We included ideas that will work for all ages, whether for kids or the kids at heart. You might be surprised at how good it feels to help celebrate a birthday without throwing a party!
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DIY a Birthday Card

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Go for glitter with this festive handmade birthday card. It’s quick and easy to make, and the end result is so sparkly-good. This is a perfect birthday card to make at the last minute, to send across the country as happy mail, or to leave on the desk of a coworker to start their day off on a celebratory note.

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Decorate Cupcakes

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Bake up the birthday girl (or boy’s!) favorite cupcake recipe, then put out all of the toppings for them to customize their own treat. You can make it as complicated or simple as you like—there’s nothing wrong with just frosting and sprinkles!—and sing your best rendition of the birthday song before digging in.

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Have a Spa Moment

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Whether young or old(er), everyone loves to be pampered at home. And taking a little time to give a manicure, pedicure, or massage is a great way to help a friend or family member celebrate a birthday. Try a new polish and some sweet-smelling lotion and ah-away!

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Take Cheesy Photos

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Assemble fun props that capture this moment in your loved one’s life—favorite hobbies, characters, or even a trend—and snap some silly pics at home. Bonus points if you set up a DIY photo booth…though, even using a plain wall as a backdrop will work just as well!

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Make Root Beer Floats

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There’s a party in every cup of this classic treat that will make any birthday end with a sweet finish. Order some artisanal root beer and vanilla bean ice cream for the most authentic flavor, add festive paper straws ($6, Walmart), and let this birthday treat stand-in for cake!

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Make a Secret Message

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This is such a fun outdoor game idea for an early reader! Use cardboard and large letter stickers to spell out a birthday message. Stack the letters out of order and let the birthday boy or girl unscramble the hidden words!

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Go All Out on the Cake

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Dust off your baking skills and bake up a cake to impress—because you don’t need to have a party to have a cake! We appreciate desserts with colorful surprises on the inside or those with simple embellishments to really play up the celebratory nature of the day! And what to do if you’re intimidated by a spatula? Order a store-bought cake and add one of these easy cake decorating ideas.

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Cheers with a Custom Cocktail

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Less involved than dinner or a party, but just as enjoyable, sharing a birthday cocktail is a new tradition that we can get behind. Make a batch of homemade cocktails with the birthday girl’s favorite flavors. Don’t forget to cheers!

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Celebrate with an Ice Cream Bar

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Order all of her favorite flavors and toppings, then set them out for DIY ice cream sundaes to celebrate the day. This is a fun birthday dessert idea that works for two people or a bigger family, so customize your ice cream spread for as many people as you have at home. And don’t forget the cones!

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Do a Craft Together

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For creative kids, this is a perfect birthday activity. This fun sailboat making project uses simple materials like pool noodles, electrical tape ($2, The Home Depot), and skewers. Then, when the boats are made, you can have a race in the backyard kiddie pool (or bathtub!).

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Start a New Tradition

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Whether it’s pancakes with sprinkles for breakfast, homemade meatballs for dinner, filling the playroom with a child’s favorite color of balloons, decorating with yarn pom-poms, writing a birthday letter filled with all of her accomplishments from the past year, or something unique to your family, birthday traditions can go a long way towards making the day feel even more special.

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Make an Epic Snack Board

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Go big with the ultimate snack board complete with all of his favorites: cheese, cured meats, fruit, nuts, condiments, and tiny pickles and veggies. Pair it with a crisp wine like a dry Reisling or hoppy IPA for a simple birthday dinner that will wow and delight.

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Have a Game Night

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Put the phones away, pull out your favorite board and card games, and have some classic fun to celebrate a birthday. Bring some local craft cider or soda and a birthday treat, and enjoy together time for a very special occasion.

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Make a Custom Card

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Show the birthday girl how much you care with a custom unicorn card just for her. This simple DIY project is easy to make and is so darn cute. She may even want to hang it on her wall as art!

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Workout Together

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Take a virtual workout class together. This will help to ensure some me-time on her special day and it’s a great opportunity to bond as you sweat and stretch.

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Mail a Card

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You know what your friend or loved one won’t expect to show up in their mailbox? A birthday card from you! Let it be a simple way that you celebrate their day and make them feel extra special.

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Make Brunch

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Plan to linger over lattes and eggs benedict with a birthday brunch date at home. This is a perfect way to celebrate a birthday without much effort on your part—just serve up coffee and your favorite easy breakfast recipe—and it virtually guarantees quality time together.

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Have a “Yes” Day

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The birthday boy or girl gets to be in charge, so anything they want to do, you say “yes!" to it. Ice cream cake cones for breakfast? Yes! Eating dinner on a picnic blanket in the living room with a favorite movie? Yes! It’s a super fun way to make a special day even more memorable.

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Have a Picnic

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Pick a pretty spot, pack a basket of goodies, and head outside for an old-school picnic lunch to celebrate a loved one’s birthday. This simple activity will show that you care enough to plan ahead. Don’t forget fun drinks!

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    1 of 19 DIY a Birthday Card
    2 of 19 Decorate Cupcakes
    3 of 19 Have a Spa Moment
    4 of 19 Take Cheesy Photos
    5 of 19 Make Root Beer Floats
    6 of 19 Make a Secret Message
    7 of 19 Go All Out on the Cake
    8 of 19 Cheers with a Custom Cocktail
    9 of 19 Celebrate with an Ice Cream Bar
    10 of 19 Do a Craft Together
    11 of 19 Start a New Tradition
    12 of 19 Make an Epic Snack Board
    13 of 19 Have a Game Night
    14 of 19 Make a Custom Card
    15 of 19 Workout Together
    16 of 19 Mail a Card
    17 of 19 Make Brunch
    18 of 19 Have a “Yes” Day
    19 of 19 Have a Picnic

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