benefits every family member --
you and your spouse included!
Here's a strange practice: Two adults, married to one another, work at difficult jobs for 50 weeks, thus earning a two-week vacation. To reward themselves for their efforts, they arrange to spend this two weeks doing things their children want to do. When the vacation is finally over, these two adults feel they need another vacation just to recover from the experience.
When did it become the norm for adults to feel compelled to center vacations around the desires of their children?
After several years of exhausting, child-oriented vacations, the Rosemond family decided to break with tradition one year by taking the children to Old Williamsburg, Virginia. The kids were not thrilled with the news. "History? That's for school!"
But when the five days in Williamsburg were over, the children didn't want to leave. They had the best time, and asked when they'd go back.
To balance things off, however, the next vacation was spent at Disney World. But the family camped, which meant the children had to spend part of each day sweeping the tent and carrying trash and doing the other odd jobs that you have to do when you don't have room service. And again, they loved it.
In the course of all this, the parents learned that vacations don't have to be child-oriented for children to have a good time. In fact, they noticed that the less child-oriented the vacation, the more well-behaved the children. They also realized that vacations don't have to be overtly "educational" for children to learn something.
However you decide to take your next vacation, you can make things more pleasant for all concerned by following the advice on the following page.