Decorating in Gray
A mix between black and white, gray is by definition a neutral. But its varying shades, from light dove to dark charcoal, make gray as versatile as any color.
Debra Wittrup
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When a call for serenity is of the upmost importance, opt for a brown-tinged shade of gray. The walls and ceiling of this bedroom are painted with a gray color that has a hint of beige, which softens the gray and almost matches the linen headboard. Use crisp white linens and just a sprinkling of colorful accents to keep the hue from becoming dingy.
A barely-gray wall color is the perfect backdrop for these waterfowl drawings. While a colorful hue would have added dimension, the gray background gently blends with the ornithological art for a museum-worthy display. For continuity, the soft-gray hue repeats through the space -- on the chair and lamp and even on the flooring, which has a gray wash. Touches of black on the dresser, in a few of the drawings, and on the chair's stripe ground the space.
This bedroom is a mix of neutral colors and natural materials. A mix of textures -- linen-upholstered headboard, soft velvet coverlet and pillow, thick wool rug, and woven-leather bench -- keeps the subtle shades interesting. "Soft-gray walls almost shimmer with creams and whites," color consultant Philippa Radon says.
Gray-blue hues also work well in contemporary settings. In this bedroom, white moldings and bedding and dark-stained wood floors are neutral complements to the gray-blue walls. The light gray headboard with its square lines draws from the wall color. At the foot of the bed, a plush settee upholstered in dark gray brings an elegant touch to the otherwise minimal decor.
In this muted but texturally rich living room, neutrals create an elegant environment. Gray-beige, or "greige," walls provide the slightest hint of color, while furnishings remain white, beige, and dark brown mahogany. Pattern is restrained, too. The lush carpet provides a nearly tone-on-tone design inspired by Moroccan mosaic tile, while a grid of landscape photos adds interest. A single amethyst pillow breaks up the understated palette.
In a shade that has a hint of blue, gray shakes its drab reputation in this charming living room. The calm palette of gray, white, and turquoise recalls the lovely tones in the sky on a stormy day. Gathered-over-time furnishings add soul to the space: An old milk-bucket bench slipped sideways between the boldly patterned chairs mimics the color in the enlarged plot maps behind in the dining area.
Soft taupes and grays prevail in a calm master bedroom devoid of pattern. The mix of luxurious textures, sleek lines, and a rich neutral palette lend the room a sophisticated yet masculine air and provide visual interest. Solid bedding in crisp white with a coverlet and accent pillows in varied shades of textured gray cover an unexpected navy blue upholstered bed frame dotted with nailhead trim.
The dark gray walls add drama to this living room. The color, inspired by the bark on the dense trees that surround the home, lets the wooded side table and frames stand out. Other elements, such as the metallic garden stool and ottoman, bring out the wall's cool undertones. This room is a mixture of styles that all work together thanks to the wall's versatile hue.
Simplicity reigns in this bedroom, where an uncluttered look and a limited gray, white, and lime-green palette make for an oasislike retreat. At night, the stone-gray wall color is cozy and enveloping. During the day, all-white bedding and window treatments keep the room bright. In a room this quiet, it only takes one dose of color to make an impact, and the tall headboard in brilliant lime delivers.
This sophisticated master bath features gunmetal-gray upper walls with marble below to fashion a calm, elegant look. The marble wainscoting matches the marble on the floor, which creates the illusion of a larger space as the eye doesn't distinguish much between the two surfaces. Light floods the room through French doors, brightening the walls and adding luster to the marble.
Dark colors help to hold a large room's furnishings together as seen in this spacious bedroom. The deep-gray upholstered bed and bench tie in with the gray armchair and dark artwork over the sofa across the room. Pops of red patterns appear throughout the room. Pale gray walls, a neutral rug, and a gray-beige sofa form the foundation for red accents that can easily be changed for accessories in a different hue. It's a practical way to decorate because you don't have to rebuild the whole room when you're ready for a change.
Think of neutrals as chic rather than bland. Colors that are classified as neutrals often have hints of other hues. These whispers of blue or yellow add dimension and spark to the neutrals they color. This dining room's storm-cloud gray walls have a subtle blue undertone, and the color creates a dynamic background to white trim and furnishings. Contrasting textures, shapes, and finishes keep the room fresh.
A subdued palette of neutrals with gray, bronze, and green keeps this master bedroom peaceful. Barely-there dove gray covers the walls, while stone gray adds depth in the curtain panels and on the headboard. A slim border of gray embellishes the white bedding. A small-scale chest of drawers in soft green serves as a nightstand. Warm hues come from a bronze bedskirt and coral-pattern pillows.
A color palette of soothing neutrals unifies a space while allowing modern furnishings to take center stage with an intriguing interplay of textures and shapes. Silk-taffeta pillows and crushed-velvet gray chairs with curved backs are luxurious counterpoints to the straight lines of cream linen sofas. The round silhouette of a cherry accent table avoids an overly matched look, and a metal coffee table is finished with textured paint. A cloudy sky inspired the room's soft-gray wall color.
Pewter-gray walls and a tall upholstered headboard create dramatic lines in this small master bedroom. Three sets of built-in drawers were tucked into the walls, saving enough floor space for a small chair and ottoman and a mirrored dresser opposite the bed. A single lime-green pillow keeps everything from looking too serious and makes the space cozy and welcoming.
An open floor plan that embraces kitchen, dining room, and living room brings a family together but poses challenges when it comes to choosing colors. In this space, neutrals reign supreme for a coordinated scheme that allows the zones to flow together beautifully. A soft shade of cypress gray-green on the cabinets, fireplace surround in the living room, and checkered plywood floor reference the trees outside and blend well with the exposed beams overhead. Dove-gray concrete countertops lighten the out-in-the-open kitchen.
A soothing neutral palette -- from the oatmeal-color rug to the pearl-gray walls -- offers a canvas for statement-making furniture. Using two neutrals instead of a single shade helps curtail neutral overload. Bold accents, such as apple-green pillows and an orange throw, enliven the room with punches of color and personality that can come and go with the changing seasons.
A cozy pair of white armchairs and a tailored pewter-gray ottoman offer a comfy reading spot in this elegant sitting room dotted with black and silver accents. Knotty-pine paneling is painted pewter gray, creating a sophisticated backdrop for the sink-in armchairs. Creamy wool draperies hung ceiling-to-floor are edged with black-and-white Greek key trim. Dark woods add warmth to the serene palette. Combining a dark hue with comfortable furnishings (like the wool drapes, cherry secretary, and relaxed armchairs) balances sophistication with livability.
Dramatic, moody tones of gray and champagne mix with glamorous, shimmery surfaces in this well-edited living room. Tone-on-tone silvery-gray damask covers the walls, and the painted frames of matching settees in front of the dove- and slate-gray fireplace are embellished with silver leaf. Puddling on the floor, champagne-color silk drapery panels and Roman shades offer the slightest hint of sheen. Gray embroidered pillows and a dynamic rug provide tone-on-tone texture.
Stone-gray walls provide a cohesive backdrop for a living room composed of a mix of modern, rustic, and reclaimed materials. Bright orange midcentury modern chairs toss color into the neutral mix and echo tones found in the assemblage of flea market artwork on the railroad-tie mantel. A plush rug, accent pillows, and improvised flooring made from old shipping pallets contribute geometric patterns to the room.
A small living room lives large in a peaceful palette of blue-gray walls, small-scale charcoal sectional, and warm orange accents. White bookcases line the wall, where a collection of globes and bookbindings sorted by color add more accent hues. Underfoot, a multicolor-stripe rug balances the solidly neutral upholstered furniture.
Gray is the ultimate neutral. It looks good with almost any color and ranges from cool to warm. In this bedroom, a classic gray coats the walls. A black four-poster and cream-color shag rug complement the cool wall color. Burnt-orange accents, lampshades, and a throw pop in this neutral room. A mirrored nightstand and metal-frame mirror above the bed add a touch of glamour.





I think the best way to pick out colors is to buy a color wheel from the manufacturer. That is the only way you can do comparisons in the light of the room you are painting.
1/22/2012 11:36:12 AM Report AbuseWell, obviously BHG/Veronica doesn't know the brands or numbers of the paint colors they're showing. They've just amassed a bunch of photos without keeping track of sources/credits/references. Frustrating, but it seems like we're all going to have to go on the scavenger hunt that Veronica recommended in 2010, trying to find scraps of things that match our monitors!
11/3/2011 08:03:06 PM Report AbuseI absolutely love the drawings and the way that they are framed - almost spilling out of the frame. Lovely! http://graciouslivingdaybyday.com/
11/2/2011 01:21:01 PM Report AbuseI don't understand why have a question for " our expert section' if the expert don't answer, from the look of this forum there has not been an answer since 2/19/2010. I consider that poor customer service!
10/26/2011 01:04:37 PM Report AbuseI agree with all of the above. Can you not just tell us if they are all Benjamin Moore and what were the #'s of the paint you used in the rooms shown? We know the monitor changes color but if we know the numbers then problem solved.It's so overwhelming when you go to the paint store and see so many sample swatches. PLEASE respond. Thank you so much. Midgie52
10/20/2011 09:26:15 AM Report AbuseCould you please share the name/brand of the colors used in slides #3,#4,#13, and #17? Thank you!
9/7/2011 04:34:51 PM Report AbuseVeronica, could you please just tell us what you used, and then we can go to the paint store and take a look at it in different lights? It's so frustrating to find something we like and then not have any way to match it. Nothing in my house is that color!
8/30/2011 07:47:49 PM Report AbuseWhat color/paint manufacturer for the grey in the KITCHEN slide #13? I love it! Please do tell!!! Thanks!
8/22/2011 12:06:23 PM Report AbuseA neutral color such as gray can definitely make stronger colors pop when you enter a room. I'm a fan.
8/17/2011 02:58:05 PM Report AbuseAshley Furniture just released some tips about decorating with gray earlier today: http://www.marketwire.com/press-release/decorating-with-gray-it-may-be-the-new-neutral-but-its-anything-but-dull-1550547.htm
8/17/2011 02:56:54 PM Report Abusevery frustrating!!! just tell us the company and color in the photos..alot of catalogs do this now-why wouldn't bhg
8/17/2011 02:50:23 PM Report AbuseHi, Is it possible to at least share which paint manufacturer this gray is from. Although I understand computer monitors differ if we know the paint # we can then grab swatches near that shade to most closely match the gray we are seeing. Thank you!
8/8/2011 09:23:12 AM Report Abusesophisticated, timeless and classy. I love NOT seeing the trendy rooms that will be outdated in two years time.
7/30/2011 08:14:50 AM Report AbusePLEASE put the color and paint manufacturer in your photos!!!!!
7/27/2011 01:14:49 PM Report AbuseHave to agree with anon; please identify the names and brands of paint colours used. Isn't that the point? I would love to use that dark gray from the dining room example. thanks.
7/27/2011 12:39:35 PM Report AbuseBhg, why do you not let people know what paint colours are used? It would be so much better. After all, we are looking at these for design ideasand help. Thanks
7/27/2011 11:57:13 AM Report AbuseI would like to know the color gray in slide number 1 as well.
8/18/2010 02:16:46 PM Report AbuseI would like the paint color in slide #1 and the wallpaper in slide #15. Thanks
8/18/2010 01:27:57 PM Report AbuseVeronica - I'm in the process of picking out a new color for our master b/r. I love the gray since it goes with many accent colors. My main problem is our woodwork is walnut. Would a shade of gray color on our walls be okay with walnut woodwork? We have cathedral ceilings in the room so I would love the gray walls! Nanacooley1@yahoo.com
8/18/2010 10:45:08 AM Report AbuseLooks a bit dull.
8/18/2010 10:00:46 AM Report AbuseWhere can I get that headboard & platform that's in the photo?I absolutely love it!!!!...andriene1@yahoo.com
7/14/2010 09:31:18 AM Report AbuseBeautiful elegance!
3/18/2010 02:21:25 PM Report AbuseI would also like to know the name and brand of the paint. I'm experiencing the problem of getting grey paint that looks blue or violet on the walls. Thanks! Tuckey.wuckey@gmail.com
3/12/2010 11:44:01 AM Report AbuseWhat is the name of the color of the grey paint used in this living room?
3/11/2010 12:44:14 PM Report Abusewhere can i buy the bed in the picture?
3/6/2010 06:20:15 PM Report AbuseI painted my bedroom gray but it looks blue! very fustrating! The paint in the can looks gray in the hall but in the bedroom looks gray! What's wrong?
2/26/2010 02:02:41 PM Report AbuseBecause computer monitors and printers are all different, the best way to get the gray-brown color you see is to do a color match. To do this: 1.Find something in your home that matches the gray you see on your screen. Take the item to your favorite paint store and have them match it. 2.Get swatches of every gray that looks like it might match the color you see on your screen. Take the swatches home and hold them up to your screen. Choose the one that is the closest match.
2/19/2010 11:06:13 AM Report AbuseWhat color is this paint, I love it?
2/18/2010 08:14:18 PM Report AbuseSorry....in the dining room with the dark gray walls.
2/17/2010 08:29:07 PM Report AbuseWhat color is the paint? I love it!
2/17/2010 08:27:32 PM Report AbuseThis is a beautiful dining room. Very Elegant!
2/5/2010 11:35:08 AM Report Abuse